Anal toys can be enjoyed safely and comfortably when chosen with care. Whether you’re completely new or looking to refine your choices, understanding materials, design, and fit is essential for a positive experience.
This guide explains how to choose anal toys responsibly, what features matter most, and how to progress at your own pace—using clear, non-graphic language and UK-focused guidance.
What Are Anal Toys?
Anal toys are products designed for external or internal anal stimulation. They vary widely in shape, size, and material, but all safe designs share one essential feature: a flared base.
Common categories include:
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Anal plugs
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Beginner-friendly plugs
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Decorative plugs (such as tails)
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Training sets
You can explore the full category in our Anal Toys collection.
The Most Important Safety Feature: The Flared Base
A flared base prevents the toy from moving internally and allows safe removal. This is non-negotiable for any toy intended for internal use.
If a product does not clearly show a flared or widened base, it should be avoided.
Choosing the Right Material
Medical-Grade Silicone
The most popular choice for comfort and hygiene:
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Soft and flexible
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Non-porous
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Easy to clean
Ideal for beginners and experienced users alike.
Stainless Steel
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Firm and smooth
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Non-porous
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Best suited to those already comfortable with anal play
Beginners often prefer silicone before exploring firmer materials.
Sizing: Why Smaller Is Better to Start
One of the most common mistakes is choosing a toy that’s too large.
For a comfortable experience:
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Start with a slim diameter
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Look for a gradual taper
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Avoid abrupt or bulbous shapes initially
If you’re new, begin with toys curated specifically for first-time use in our Beginner Anal Toys collection.
Beginner vs Decorative Anal Toys
Beginner Anal Toys
Designed for comfort and confidence:
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Smaller sizes
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Softer materials
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Simple shapes
Decorative Anal Toys (Including Tails)
Once you’re comfortable, you may explore aesthetic designs such as tail butt plugs, which combine a standard plug with a decorative element.
These should still follow all safety rules:
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Proper flared base
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Body-safe materials
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Appropriate sizing
You can view suitable options in the Tail Butt Plug collection.
Lubrication & Comfort
Lubrication is essential for anal play:
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Use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys
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Apply generously and reapply as needed
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Never rush insertion
Comfort should always come first. If something doesn’t feel right, stop.
Cleaning & Storage
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Wash toys before and after use with warm water and toy-safe cleanser
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Dry thoroughly
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Store separately in a clean pouch
Non-porous toys are the easiest to maintain and are strongly recommended.
Common Questions About Anal Toys
Are anal toys safe?
Yes—when they are body-safe, correctly sized, and used responsibly.
How long can they be worn?
This varies by product and comfort level. Beginners should keep sessions short.
Can beginners use decorative plugs?
Yes, as long as the plug itself is beginner-sized and designed for safe internal use.
Final Thoughts
Choosing anal toys should feel informed and pressure-free. Focus on:
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Safety features
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Comfortable sizing
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Body-safe materials
Progress at your own pace, and always prioritise comfort over curiosity.
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